i'm worried - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

xgirlx · 02-08-2003, 03:32 PM

the other day, i let my guy put his penis inside of me...not all the way because i guess i wasn't aroused enough so the hole wasn't big enough. but anyways, there was penetration...and we didn't use a condom because we didn't think that was sex...well, lets just say we weren't thinking. he didn't ejaculate in me but i'm still very worried. It has been five days and i have Urinary tract infection, a fever, and i have stomach cramps. Do you think i could possibly be pregnant or is that just a symptom of UTI? some of my friends think that i can't get pregnant because my period just ended about 6 or 7 days ago so i wasn't ovulating. but i don't know,what do you guys think? also, he considers himself a virgin still...but i dont' know what to think.

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Blastoff9600 · 02-08-2003, 03:42 PM

Well first niether of you are virgins. He had his penis in you so that counts as him no longer beina virgin. Second yes you can get pregnant. Precum can contain sperm which can get you pregnant. Also cycles can change so you can ovulate early so you can still get pregnant this way. You can go to the pregnancy board and talk to the women on there who have gotten pregnant during and right after their periods.
You need to see your doctor to get checked for the UTI and to get it treated. As for finding out if you are pregnant or not that is going to have to wait. You can take a home pregnancy test about the time you are due for your period.
Your chances are slim that you are pregnant but itis still there.
Also dont EVER let a guy put his penis in you without a condom again,unless of course you want to get pregnant.

Apollo · 02-08-2003, 07:24 PM

Blastoff, you never sugar coat anything, nothing wrong with that. But I just like to stress that your odds are probably really slim, and if you become nervous and stressed, your period may become iregular, and you will worry more if the stress disallows your period for that month. So, just be a bit worried, and time will tell, from now on use a condom.

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Dramaqueen · 02-08-2003, 08:24 PM

You are no longer a virgin and yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. Soon it will be best to get a pregnancy test done. Next time, use a condom.

Blastoff9600 · 02-08-2003, 09:12 PM

Apollo life isnt meant to be sugar coated...I never had it sugar coated for me. Reality is there is a chance like I said. And if you note I did say it was a slim chance.
I see too many people sugar coat things and it drives me nuts because then those people arent ready for what really does happen when they step out into the real world.