I WANT TO HAVE SEX BUT CANT GET A GIRLFRIEND - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

hornyguy · 02-10-2003, 10:58 PM

i want to have sex but cant get a girlfriend. I am out of school but in college courses. i am only 16 and mastubate alot. i am interested in a fake ***** to jerk off with but they dont sell them to horny 16 year olds that arent supposed to have sex. i am really not a social guy but have asked many girls out and always gotten turned down. i want to know where is a good place to meet girls even if they are older then me. i live in a small town but can drive to malls and stuff. where can i get a sex toy for people under 18. i am so desperate for sex and tired of masterbating. i thought of a hooker but they make me feel dirty.

Apollo · 02-10-2003, 11:18 PM

Horniness is no excuse, to force sex. You don't want to be the guy, having a kid at 16. Your education has nothing to do with your sexual drive. You seem to not be mature enough to understand the full aspects of sex. If you start off as a person who doesn't respect and cherish sex, you will go throughout your life doing just that. Sex is way different form masturbation, it has physcial, emotional, and social effects and consiquences. I'm not trying to bag on your or anything, but trying to get a girlfriend to jsut have sex with, ain't being vewry respectful to her. Sex is something to cherish, and not to be forced or bought. Live with it, until you find that special someone. Your not alone, but you have to understand that you only have your virginity once. You could make it a really good time, special, and enjoyable, or you could make it a crappy one night stand, and only for the pleasure. And also, once you have sex, it's really hard to stop. There is a lot more emotional effects than you think. Personnally I have come out of a sexual relationship. It has been a bit hard, but I am lasting. You have to just wait.

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hornyguy · 02-10-2003, 11:47 PM

I get what your saying but iam saying stuff about my education because of my social status. im at a community college. i could pick up girls there. i dropped out of school because of depression from stress from other kids. i also just need someone to talk to and cuddle with and love because i dont have any friends and when i say im not social i really mean it. iam a computer geek. but like i said i want to have a relationship with someone not just for sex but as a friend. i dont want a baby but will use birthcontrol. but i am tired of jerking off i want to have a warm embrace with feeling also. and about the sex toy do u have any idea how i could get one. because its safer than sex and i dont think adults realize that they could stop some teens from having sex

Apollo · 02-10-2003, 11:55 PM

Ok, so you would like a romantic partner. You are at a community college, but you say that you are unsocial, and are a computer geek. Have you ever tried to limit your time on the comupter. I'm not saying ditch the computer nad try to do the stuff, that all the "popular people" do. You jsut got to experiance the world, just not behind your computer screen. Maybe you will find a girl that enjoys computers too. Experiance the world, and it will find you someone.

About the sex toys, they are never near the realism of sex, you don't want to live off of a peice of plastic.

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[This message has been edited by Apollo (edited 02-11-2003).]

hornyguy · 02-11-2003, 12:09 AM

appolo thanks
i get out alot now because i can drive and since i live in a rural area there is noone to associate with. but the thing is im shy and cant start a conversation without sounding stupid http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/confused.gif i want to charm girls not make them say eww because im 4'5" and weigh 195lbs so im pudgy . where is a social place to meet girls because there are no clubs or anything to do where i live but the mall or walmart