First time - Keep the erection - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Cards1515 · 02-15-2003, 09:35 AM

Me and my girlfriend have not had sex yet but we openly discuss it without any embarassment or anything but there is just one thing I am concerned about. Being a first timer, I am obviously rather doubtful on how long I could keep an erection without ejaculating rather soon. Are there any web sites anyone recommend out there on how to make it as easy as you can the first time? I know you are not aloud to give tips on the boards, but any kind of... allowed advice or recommondations to sites would be fine by me... I'm just a little nervous on how it would go, as most everyone is at some time in life!

Apollo · 02-15-2003, 11:20 AM

First Time....um...since it is your first time, I don't think you should worry about that kind of thing. Becuase if you get worried or get nervous about your "time limit" then you won't sustain a good enough erection, and possibly not realyl climax. I think for the first time, I think your girlfriend shouldn't really judge you. Just have fun, and USE PROTECTION.

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Dramaqueen · 02-15-2003, 12:59 PM

Hey, try not to stress to much because as Apollo said, the more you stress the less likely you will be able to maintain an errection.

Just make sure your both comfortable and use protection. I guess you could try masturbating alot the day before or the day, but it wouldn't reallllllly work.

george52806 · 02-15-2003, 03:43 PM

Just get together,slow things down and think good taughts. Being calm and not to worry, it will come naturally.

DS · 02-16-2003, 04:28 PM

I'm 16 thinking about what I will do too--I think about the exact same stuff as you. My suggestion would be to get her really excited first, so when you finally do 'engage' she will climax pretty fast....which would be the perfect time for you to go.

Thats my plan neway once I have sex. (First I need to get a girlfriend I guess lol)