Hello everyone!! A couple of weeks ago I made the mistake of drinking alcohol and taking a bunch of pills at the same time even though I am only 16! I went to this party and this guy took me to his room and like fingered me and we did oral sex on each other and then he tried to have sex with me!!! He put his penis all the way in and starting doing me but then it started hurting really bad so I told him to stop! He stoped luckly! I have alreaddy poped my cherry by getting fingered like a year ago but I was wondering after that experience am I still a virgin?? please help me by answering this ASAP!!! Thanks much!bye
I'm really sorry to hear about the bad experience that you have had.. And I am also sorry to tell you that no you are not a virgin anymore.. Once a penis has been inserted into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.. If you feel like you vere abused, you need to talk to someone.. A parent or someone close to you.. Don;t let anyone ever take advantage of you.. You also might want to looking into some safer activities...
I have to agree, you are no longer a virgin. Was he wearing a condom? You may want to be sure that not being a virgin anymore is your only problem. Next time be more careful of the situation you allow yourself to be put into. You need to discuss this problem with an adult that you can trust. Good luck!
I'm really concernedabout your feelings and actions though. It's never wise to get yourself into a suituation like that over misuse of drugs and alcohol. However he should NOT have tajen advantage of you. Have you talked to someone you trust about this? Do you feel abused?
thanks for the help everyone! No I do not feel abused and actually it is not that big of a deal to me! I talked to him about it and he appoligized many,many times! After all he was on the same stuff I was so it is not really his fault! I have talked to friends and they have helped me work things out! Thanks much