had sex... now worried - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Lilac Wine · 02-11-2003, 08:58 PM

I had sex for the first time. It seems to have gone ok. I am on the pill and take it pretty much right on the dot everyday, he wore and condom will spermicide lubricant, and pulled out when he came. Everything with the condom was ok, no breakage and it stayed on. We planned this for awhile and I knew I would worry about pregnancy and now that I did it I am :S What are my chances? But one thing stupid I never even caught until later... he ejaculated, took off the condom, and awhile later, not sure exactly how long, he fingered me ! I am just scared now! I need advice/reassurance/opionions.

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 02-14-2003).]

sweetiepie1982 · 02-11-2003, 09:29 PM

Good for you for using all the protection that you did. Yeah, it wasn't the smartest thing in the world that he fingered you after everything, but I think it is a very slim chance that you could be pregnant. You are on birth control, and I really think that everything should be ok. It's not like I am a professional or anything, but with all the protection you used, especially the birth control, I wouldn't worry about it.

Apollo · 02-11-2003, 11:05 PM

Your fine. There is practically no way for you to get pregnant. Don't worry, everything will be ok, if your worrying this much on the first time, which is ok, but this is sex, and you will hopefully enjoying the rest of your life, you have to learn to use all protection that you desire, and have fun, but also to accept if their is a pregancy invovled. Make sure you really sit down (not in a sexual way), and straight out talk to him, if it ever would happens.

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Dramaqueen · 02-12-2003, 12:18 AM

Hey, I honestly wouldn't worry too much, you took all the right precautions and everything should be fine. Next time though you might want to avoid doing that-just because it will make you worry.

george52806 · 02-12-2003, 05:25 PM

Sounds like you did the right thing so I really wouldent worry about it that much.