tight...is this normal? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

dandi_andi · 05-15-2003, 06:29 AM

Well whenever I masturbate, then orgasm...my vagina seems to get really tight, like i can't even get a finger in there...is that normal? does it happen to anyone? Thank you!!

L-man22 · 05-15-2003, 02:44 PM

First off, how old are you? Age and sexual experience might have something to do with it.

Also, from a male perspective. I've had sex with girls that for some reason the first time we have sex, they seem to tense up at the point of penatration, that I cannot get inside. But after relaxing it all goes smooth. Maybe this is opposite with you. Your vagina seems to flex after you reach climax.

Karla · 05-15-2003, 06:35 PM

When you orgasm your muscles flex and constrict and tighten and loosen off and on. At times you will find it is hard to insert but keep at it and you will lossen up in a few min. If you absolutely can't you may want to try a lubricant but my guess is if you keep trying you will suceed. Dont be afraid to be a little forcefull at first you will lossen up.

Wildpink · 05-16-2003, 10:39 PM

Hi, I once used to think this too. I think u mean like when u orgasm it tightens? well, yeah lol...well the guys i have been with say that its better when the girl tightens alot at orgasm because sometimes it can make them come at the same time as u, like it feels good to them- and thats a good thing, so dont worry about it. if ure a virgin when u go to have sex for the first time, just relax and u will be fine.

Dramaqueen · 05-17-2003, 06:10 PM

That's okay, sometimes after orgasm you can be a bit tight (or loose)! Just relax, and try some water based lubricant. And if you really can't do it without pain, don't bother.