Yes, I'll agree, having sex without a condom feels MUCH better. But in the end, is it worth the risk of becoming pregnant or getting an STD? Not hardly. I admire that you have told him it's time to use condoms - and if he won't listen, don't fall for the statement "a guy always wins the battle". Tell him no unless he wraps it up. If not, eventually, almost positively, you will become pregnant at some point if you continue to have unprotected sex. Then, I guarentee, even if he doesn't admit it to you, he'll punish himself everyday with the fact that he chose to be irresponsible and not use condoms. As for a guy ******* without his knowledge, I've heard of, but I don't think it's common as a guy, of course, anticipates ejaculating, therefore knows when he is about to or has. Hope this helps and wrap it up. Save unprotected sex for your husband, when you can fully support a child if you were to get pregnant. Take care.
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