Probably Just Being Paranoid - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

justasking · 05-19-2003, 11:45 PM

I am probably just being paranoid, but would like to find out what others think so I can put some of these fears to rest.
My BF and I were fooling around (I had my underwear on) and he ejaculated but not anywhere near the vaginal area.

After the fact, I noticed I had a wet spot on the INSIDE of my underwear (probably from me but...). I dont recall him being that close to my underwear, but maybe something happened and he got close(?), although I doubt it. It felt a bit lotioney and smelled (on my fingers) the same, so maybe I adjusted (before he ejaculated) and got some of the lotion that was on my hands on the inside of my underwear.

It was the day after my period ended, so my question is this: what are the chances I could be pregnant?

I worry that maybe there was precum in the lotion or something and I adjusted my underwear and possibly semen got into my vagina.

That night I went and bought the at home ovulation test kit ("Answer"), and the results were a bit sketchy with the test line being lighter on the outside than the reference line, but with a dark pinstripe through the center of it. I didnt really know how to read that, but am guessing that it means there was no LH surge.

My cycles are about 35 days long, but vary from 35-40 days.

The morning after the fact I went to the bathroom and when I wiped there was some brown discharge, but that might just have been either the period totally winding up or from from him fingering me although that never happened with my past boyfriends.

Ever since the morning after Ive had light cramps, but Im thinking they might be psycosematic because I get them whenever I get worried about all of this, yet there is a nagging fear that maybe they are implantation cramps.. although from what I know implantation cramps dont last for four days, nor do they start right after fertilization.

I have never ovulated so close in a month either, so Im leaning towards just being scared.

I know theres alot of detail here and maybe too much but I just wanted to make sure I included everything.

I even took a pregnancy test because I was worried that maybe pregnancy from a previous encounter was causing this, but I got a definate negative.

So it would help my nerves alot if I could get some insight from people who might know a bit.

Thanks a bunch!

HGF109 · 05-20-2003, 04:33 AM

I've been there and asked similiar questions: I started a thread to get some answers on subjects like this: u might find it informative and useful to your questions!
[url="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/Forum116/HTML/002271.html"]http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/Forum116/HTML/002271.html[/url]

It's on the woman's health board.

Any just as a side-note: if this just happended then u need to wait on that pregnancy test . . .

- In my thoughts and prayers

Wildpink · 05-20-2003, 05:39 AM

Hey, if theres one thing i need to say-is that u will probably be ok and try not to worry so much. the fact that he didnt actually ejaculate inside u is ok, and so i would think it would be hard.
...with pregnancy tests, u need to wait maybe 3 weeks before the real results will show. Read the instructions thoroughly and there are also instructions on the pack to a place u can call incase u need advice. The reason u have to wait several weeks or so, is because the pregnancy test looks for a hormone -HCG in your urine which, if u are pregnant will be detected in the test and the HCG might not show up straight away for a few weeks.

Anyway, have u thought that maybe because u were with him mucking around, that it might have made u wet down there and thats what the wet stuff was-becasue when u are sexually aroused, u can secrete stuff there to make it easier for when u go to have sex. Im guessing that you are new to all this. but if not, then Im sorry if I offend u in any way. But please dont worry, I really think it will all be fine. Tell u what, wait two weeks or so, then test again. During the meantime, dont stress and try not to think about it.

Snazzy101 · 05-20-2003, 08:00 AM

Nah, you're not pregnant if the scenario was exactly as you described.

First, if his semen mixed with lotion, the sperm would not be viable.

Second, you had just finished your period. It would be extremely unlikely that you ovulated that soon.

There was also no point in taking that pregnancy test. They can only detect a pregnancy after several weeks. If your next period is late, that would be the time to test.

I really wouldn't worry about this

SimplePleasures* · 05-20-2003, 03:04 PM

You're not pregnant. I will jump off the Grand Canyon to my death if you are. Don't sweat it at all.