Do a search through the posts and you will find TONS of advice about orgasms.
A little side note though it shouldnt be left to your bf to get you to orgasm. Try masturbating to learn what works for you...the best way to do this is by yourself so you can relax and explore your own body.
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Married 3/25/95
DS 13 yr
DS 8 yr (3+ yrs ttc)
TTC #3 since 01/02
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God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change; Courage to change the things I can; and Wisdom to know the difference.
I have nvr orgasmed, eitha wid a bf or on my own. Have tried masterbation, vibrator, different positions, speeds EVERYTHING! So your not the only one. Apparantly it happens to 10% of woman.