sex help - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

BrattyBabe · 05-23-2003, 09:24 PM

My boyfriend is 20 years old and when we get ready to have sex we go through all the forplay and all that and right when we are about to do the deed he looses his erection. He also said that he has a tight notty feeling in his abdomin like he is nervous. He said that this is the firt time it has happened, but the past two times we have tried to have sex it has been that way. Does anyone who have any advice for him? he is really worried that something is wrong and that he will have to go to the doctor. But could it just be that he is nervous around me?? Please help! Thanks http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/confused.gif

Kate8 · 05-23-2003, 09:45 PM

I'm thinking if he's nervous you may want to try just having dry sex for awhile til he gets his spring back ok? best of luck!

UF baby · 05-24-2003, 07:39 PM

My bf had a hard time obtaining/maintaining an erection at the beginning of our sexual relationship. Is sex something new for the two of you? It can be kind of scary to be on such an intimate level with someone, and I'm sure that that's the problem. If he keeps worrying about it and thinking about it, it's not gunna happen. So just get him to relax and enjoy foreplay.

Dramaqueen · 05-24-2003, 09:21 PM

Jsu relax, don't mkae a big deal out of it, and it will get better.