i dont know what is wrong with me.i was with the girl of my dreams and i couldnt get it up. i really was really in to but nothing happen. no matter what she did i still couldnt get it up.what is wrong with me im 17 years old and i cant get it up i feel like a failure.i fine on my own but when im with her i just cant. but this isnt the first time this happen. and i cant keep it up when i do. what is wrong with me.
You could be too anxious. You could feel guilty. Maybe you are scared or maybe you are gay but whatever the reason, the more pressure you put on yourself the less likely it will be for you to get an erection. Relaxation is often the key.
you may have directly started to intercourse without kissing, rubbing or making love or you were worried about the time and wanted to finish everything so fast and go try to take your time in any condition and never get worried or scared.
there can be one more reason and that is, you may respect her too much beside loving her that directly effects.
Last edited by Mod-S4; 06-09-2012 at 09:34 AM.
Reason: Unnecessary info removed.