How to take next step? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

arby123 · 05-21-2003, 09:56 PM

Me and my gf have been together a little more than two months, and I just don't know how to advance. Like I've never gotten nor given oral (she's more experienced) and I want to take the next step with her. I'm just not sure how to go about it , so any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

bfl · 05-22-2003, 04:23 AM

no instructional how-tos on sexual techniques are allowed on this board...bfl

budman · 05-22-2003, 06:11 AM

Let her know you want to take that next step and TELL her your worries. Since she is more experienced than you, let her guide you. Women are such wonderful teachers.

Rixtar · 05-22-2003, 10:50 AM

Have a good old fashioned conversation. Rehearse your part of it so you feel comfortable with the topic.

Apollo · 05-23-2003, 12:17 AM

Um, this is I gues a good way, I do it with women, and it works. You make a move, and when you feel you may being going to far or something, just ask like "yes?" soft, and smoothly, if she says no, you slowly decline, but if she says yes, go for it. Always good to ask, each step of the way, show's you actually care about her feelings, which you should anyways.

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