is this normal.... - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Helpmeguys · 05-27-2003, 07:58 PM

ok recently i just got a best friend who is male and i dont have many friends by the way and sometimes i seroiusly have sorta fantasies about him. It grosses me out since i'm attracted to women. But since i've NEVER had a girlfriend in my life it raises questions like am i really gay or something. Though i know i'd never sleep with another man. and i was just wondering if this was normal.

DanaJ · 05-27-2003, 08:45 PM

You seem pretty young, so it could be many normal things.
You could just be curious, or it could be your horomones playing their part. Either way it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Even so, who cares if it does?
I say don't sweat it. As time progresses you'll know how you feel, and just accept it. Screw societal stigma about homosexuality etc.