What to do HELP! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

schoolgirl · 06-03-2003, 01:44 PM

if anyone wants to read i would be very greatful thanks! ok well i want to do something special for my bf but i'm not ready to have sex. he has been talking about it and things that have to do with sex lately. i don't know if he wants to know how i feel about the topic or if he's hinting 'it'. he always talks about how it is a two person decision and he is willing to wait. he says he loves me and i think that him waiting proves it. i love him too and i want to do something for him just not sex, as his birthday is just around the corner.what can i do? someone said a lap dance but there has to be something better! any ideas? what do you guys like!i already got him a material present but i want to give him something more.

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mihyita · 06-03-2003, 04:26 PM

how old are you?

procharged · 06-03-2003, 11:26 PM

I dont think they are allowed to post their age on here.

Lap dances are cool. If the girl is good, I like them.

If you are mature enough, there are a few more things you could do.

bradford54 · 06-04-2003, 06:24 AM

What ever you do for him do not be pressured into sex.
and if it comes to sex
be safe
CONDOM TALK
Make sure he uses a condom
NO CONDOM NO SEX
End of condom talk
Have fun and good luck

mlgable · 06-04-2003, 08:52 AM

Hmmmm something safe but fun might be to get some of those flavored oils and edible body paints and have some fun playing with those for his birthday. I know they sell those things in stores like spencer gifts at most malls so you wouldn't need to go to an adult store to buy them. It could be an evening of wonderful massaging and playing with his body without ever having sex.