No, no, no, no.. where you pee from is not where your hymen (cherry) is. Your hymen is just inside your vaginal cavity. I really think it would be a good idea for you to do a search and get a basic diagram of your vulva, so that you understand where everything is. Go to yahoo and type in :
female sexual anatomy diagram
Click on the second link.
If you don't intend to have sex until you're married, please stop worrying about "breaking your cherry" now. You might not even have a hymen, or it could already be "broken." For most women, there is not a lot of pain. I didn't even have any

You're really worrying for nothing.
[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 06-04-2003).]