Pain after sex, when I pee... - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Anette0513 · 05-14-2003, 11:11 PM

Ok aside from my wierd topic title

...
heres the thing, whenever me and my b/f have sex...its fine and dandy but on occasion like when i am ontop it kind of hurts when he gets in me,.And when i go to the bathroom, it burns...almost like the skin towards the back has been rubbed raw (sorry if that was kinda grusome). I don't know what it is, but it stings like none other... i was thinkin that mayb i'm not wet enough before hand? i dunno! any help would be appreciated!

Anette0513

Karla · 05-15-2003, 06:25 PM

You going on top allows for very deep penetration so you are very likely to cramp up or feel a little discomfort. I always do. You may need a lubricant to help out. I find if we go a long period of time having sex I will get raw and it will hurt to go to the bathroom. Try one and see if it helps. I find the discomfort is short lived and not worth the mess and hastle of the lubricant. You will have to judge for yourself and see.

maladroner · 07-08-2003, 12:55 AM

I noticed two main things cause that kinda pain. 1) when your on top, it's very deep penatration and it also rubs the back of the vagina, which can sometimes tear more of the hymen which can cause burning and pain and 2) lubrication that your using can cause burning, so you may wanna look into switching condoms or contraceptives

maladroner · 07-08-2003, 12:56 AM

Oopsy

[This message has been edited by maladroner (edited 07-09-2003).]

LostLilGirl827 · 07-10-2003, 02:28 AM

I burn, but I don't get on top, and I don't... remember the other thing. lol