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Old 07-14-2003, 03:13 PM   #1
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question:: i am the type of girl whom usually doesnt let her guard up, and my previous relationship i started to because i really liked the guy, unfortunately his feelings werent mutual and he broke up wit me. anyways I fell hard for this guy and even tho we are still friends its weird to see him. so basically my question is:: how do you know or how can you tell if a guy is going to break your heart?? and how can you prevent yourself from falling hard for them?? ***thanks so much to whomever can reply to this!!

 
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Tina, this is a tough question. I'm sure he will not be the only person to break your heart. That's just a part of growing up and learning. The only way you could prevent yourself from falling for someone is to avoid them all together. Unfortunately, you would be depriving yourself of childhood if you did this. You never know who you will break things off with you, but you can expect none of these relationships to end in marriage. The only thing you need to remember is guys don't fall in love if you give them what they want. Enjoy being friends with these guys and even dating, but don't give in to them to try to secure a relationship. You will regret it in the end. Take care and know that you will know when your sole mate comes along.

 
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Good advice so far.
As already stated, you can only avoid getting hurt by avoiding the situations all together.
As time goes on, you will gain more and more wisdom and knowledge on how to deal with relationships.
It's cliche, but it's like learning to ride a bike. You're going to fall a few times, get some bruises and whatnot, but with practice you'll master the skill.
Life is all about learning through trial and error.
Looking back, if I hadn't made the mistakes I did, I would have never become the person I am today. You'll see that each mistake you make, will help you to learn and understand more about not only the situation, but also yourself.
Broken hearts are part of the process to becoming aware of what you do and don't want out of life/relationships.
Anyway, basically don't rush into things. I've found that developing a friendship is key to a strong based relationship. Once you have that to stand on, building up is easier.
So keep it slow, and in time you'll know when to give in and let the walls down.

 
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