Cut, didn't hurt though?? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Tremo · 07-16-2003, 05:17 PM

ok, here's the thing. a couple of nights ago, my bf was fingering me, everything was fine. until later i realized that a bloody/discharge substance was coming out of me. i just got my period, so i'm possitive it isn't that. what i think happened was that he cut me, but it didn't hurt? but i guess i was caught up in it, so i might not have felt it. i don't really want to talk to him about it, i don't want him to feel bad, because it didn't hurt. i am not even sure if he noticed. today it seems fine, so everything is ok. i just was wondering, well i'm pretty sure i'm right, but it will just heal up on it's own right? thanks for any advice given. oh, and if anyone is living in the washington area, TALK TO ME.
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babygurl87 · 07-16-2003, 05:31 PM

Yea I get cuts sometimes its probably just from his fingernail or something it goes away in a few days....well at least for me so dont worry about it. your lucky yours didnt hurt though!! but if he keeps doing it just tell him to go easier.

MuSIcGiRl0412 · 07-17-2003, 01:31 PM

Yep, I agree it's probably a cut. I've gotten those too. Make sure his fingernails are cut short and his hands are clean and it probably won't happen again. If it doesn't stop bleeding or if it starts to hurt, I would recommend talking to a doctor because then it could be worse. But I wouldn't worry about it. If he ever goes too hard and it starts to hurt, make sure you tell him! He is trying to pleasure you, not hurt you!
~*Kayla*~

happy go lucky · 07-17-2003, 02:12 PM

HI, ALSO CONSIDER THE FACT THAT STD'S CAN PASS FROM A CUT IN THE VAGINAL AREA AND A CUT ON HIS FINGER. IT WILL BE MORE RLEAXING TO YOU, IF HE USES A CONDOM ON HIS FINGERS AND BOTH OF YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO WORRY. IN FACT SOME CONDOMS CAN MAKE THE EXPERIENCE FAR MORE PLEASURABLE. LOOK UNDER MY POOSTINGS ABOUT CONDOMS.

FUN AND EXCITMENT ARE GREAT BUT NOT AT THE RISK OF SAFETY!

Apollo · 07-17-2003, 11:41 PM

Just make sure he trys to keep his finger nails trimed, and trys to use his finger rather than the tip, as a whole.

Side note specifically to Happy go lucky: Can you please not use caps, it brings a sense that your yelling. Thanks.

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