happy go lucky

HAY, FOR HEALTH, SAFETY AND CLEANLINESS REASONS, MY G/F AND I ALWAYS USE A CONDOM. LOOK UP MY TWO POSTINGS BELOW UNDER CONDOM SIZES AND YOU WILL SEE WHY. WITH SOME CONDOMS, ESPICALLY THOSE THAT ARE RIPPLED, STUDDED OR HAVE OVERSIZED "HOODED" AREA OVER THE HEAD OF THE PENIS, IF U USE LUBRICATION THE EXPERIANCE CAN BE FAR MORE GRATFIING THEN JUST A H/J OR A HAND/LUBE JOB.

USING CONDOMS WITH THESE IMPROVEMENTS MEANS SHE, (OR HE IF YOU ARE GAY OR BI), CAN GET YOU REALLY WOUND UP,(MUCH MORE SO THAN WITHOUT A CONDOM), LET YOU SETTLE DOWN A LITTLE AND WIDN YOU UP AGAIN. A GOOD H/J WITH A CONDOM CAN GO OWN FOR QUITE A LONG WHILE, WHICH IS GOOD PRACTICE 4 WHEN YOU ARR READY FOR INTERCOURSE. WHEN YOU FINALY EXPLODE IT WILL ALL VERY NEATLY BE IN A RUBBER, WITHOUT A CHANGE OF HER, GIVING YOU AN STD, (THRU A CUT ON HER HAND OR VICE VERSA).

U WOULD BE SURPRISED HOW EASLILY DAMAGING THE SKIN ON YOUR PENIS CAN BE FROM A RING, A FINGER NAIL, ETC, WHEN YOU BOTH GET EXCITED. MY FIRST H/J, WE USED LUBE, NO CONDOM AND I DID NOT REALIZE IT AT THE TIME, BUT THE BACK OF HER RING WORE A RAW SPOT OF THE BOTTOM EDGE OF THE FLAIR OF THE HEAD OF MY PENIS. IT HURT LIKE HELL! I WAS A KID AND I REALIZE HOW FOOLISH IT WAS IF SHE HAS HAD AN STD THERE WAS A CHANCE OF GETTING ONE.

I CAN TELL YOU THAT MY BEST FRIEND IS NOT CUT, (I AM CUT)AND HIS G/F ROLLED BACK HIS FORESKIN DURING A H/J AND WORE HIM SO RAW UNDER THE FORESKIN SO RAW IT ACTUALLY BLED.

SO I ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. MOST TIMES WE DO IT IT IN THE PRIVACY OF MY BEDROOM OR BATHROOM WHERE WE BOTH CAN REMOVE THE CONDOM TOGETHER AND WASH UP. EVEN IF IT IS NOT IN A PLACE WHERE WE CAN WASH UP TOGETHER, WE USE ANTI-BACTERIA WIPES ON EACH OTHER. FRANKLY I THINK IT IS MORE ROMANTIC FOR THE TWO OF YOU TO CLEAN UP TOGETHER, IT IS A PART OF MAKING LOVE AND MAKING LOVE MEANS IT BOTH OF YOU ENJOY IT, SO WE MAKE IT A JOINT EFFORT FROM BEGINING TO END.

JOINT EFFORT MEANS BEING RESPONABLE IN NOT GETTING,GIVING OR SREADING STD'S, AIDS OR UNWANTED BIRTHS. REMEMBER, THAT IS SHE TOUCHS HERSELF AFTER A H/J WITHOUT CLEANING UP OR THAT YOU TOCUH HER HANDS AFTER A H/J BEFORE SHE IS CLEANED UP, AND TOUCH HER YOU CAN GET HER PREG. BECAREFUL , BE SAFE AND HAVE FUN.......BUT REMEMBER HAVING FUN ALSO MEANS BEING RESPON. ENJOY AND TAKE CARE,


{please do not type in all capital letters, on the internet this is considered to be shouting...only type in all caps if you have a physical limitation that prevents you from doing otherwise, thanks, bfl}


[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 07-17-2003).]