don't know how i feel, or what to do about it - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Tremo · 07-16-2003, 04:34 PM

ok, here's the sisuation. i have been dating this guy for a long time now, but things are starting to change. i still love him, but i'm confused on what to do, since i don't think i'm the right person for him right now. i know he loves me, and before everything was great. but lately, i just been feeling guilty, and taking everything the wrong way. i don't think i'm the girl for him, he needs someone to give him stuff more then i do. but i'm affraid that if i do break-up with him, that i will regret, and i don't want to break-up with him, because all i think about is him. i just don't know what to do. i'm going to talk to him at some point, is there anything that i could say, that wouldn't make him jump to thinking that i want to break-up with him? please help.

i'm new on this board, but already i found alot of helpful information. thank you

happy go lucky · 07-16-2003, 04:42 PM

PERHAPS YOU SHOULD SAY, WE NEED A LITTLE TIME AND SPACE FROM EACH OTHER. YOU MAY WELL FIND THAT IT WILL BE THE BEST THING 4 BOTH OF U!

Tremo · 07-16-2003, 04:58 PM

that's good advice, but i don't want that, because i can't be without him, it's too hard, and i don't want everyone to get all worried about us. knowing both are families they would probably assume we broke-up and i don't want that at all. but thank you, i just want something i can say, that doesn't sound like i want to brake-up. thanks again

Teenie Wahini · 07-16-2003, 05:15 PM

why do you feel guilty?

Tremo · 07-16-2003, 05:30 PM

i feel guilty because i feel like he deserves more, then what i can give him. but he says he doesn't want anything else. but i just can't get over the guilt for some reason.
- tremo