Stamina - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Sappy · 07-19-2003, 12:12 AM

Okay.. I lost my virginity about 8 weeks ago, with my girlfriend. Well, I had sex anyway. I didn't reach climax. That's my point. She takes 15-30 minutes to climax, and I take several hours. Am I.. impotent or something? I've watched porn before, when masturbating (every week or two weeks) .. has that made me less sensitive to things she does? We've had sex 4 or 5 times since, and she simply can't get me to orgasm (she even tried to hand-wise for 50 minutes, and couldn't) .. it's embarrassing to me. I want to be able to show her that I love it as much as she does, and that she's physically attractive (she has some complex :P) .. I've heard of Viagra-- but I want to correct myself, truly.. not take a pill every time I want to have sex. Herbal stuff? I donno. It's lofty. Please help-- Sappy the Lionheart Romantic.

Apollo · 07-19-2003, 12:38 AM

Try to chill on your masturbation habits.

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disturbed99 · 07-19-2003, 03:43 AM

I have actually expirenced this problem. I used to not be able to climax, but as time went on I relaxed and everything fell into place. I beleive it is the same situation people have of getting an erection....when they can't, it's sometimes called performance anxiety. You feel pressured to climax, just relax, and concentrate on making her feel good and what your feeling, not what you want to feel. Also I agree with Apollo, try not maturbating for a week or 2 and see the results.

Lance2 · 07-19-2003, 06:22 AM

I suspect that your penis isn't responding to her vagina and the difference between your masturbation. Its pretty common when we add sexual intercourse that our lil guy has to get used to the new "environment" Even though you don't appear to be someone who masturbates frequently, your penis is "trained" to respond to your grip, style, speed, technique and such. Just keep working at it, experimenting with new grips and such and I suspect things will be fine. Adding masturbation to your foreplay with her may helps as well, let her work with it and that should help also. Good luck!