My guy has a chick and i want him - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Livetolovelife · 07-18-2003, 02:09 AM

Okay now there was this guy that i am fully in love with and when he broke up with his long term gf we kinda hooked up and had a great time together and being 16 i lost my virginity to him. Anywayz time went on and he went back to his ex because he believed that she was what he needed and i was like a lushious candy that he wanted. Well yeah so we are still great buddies until last night we went out to an underage rage and we hooked up and went at it all night, but i really want him for myself and i know that he loves me back...but how do i go about it and is he even worht it???

happy go lucky · 07-18-2003, 02:17 AM

there is an old song from a musical, th esong i s I am going to wash that man out of my hair, I suggest you do so. You may love him, but to him, you are a convenient distraction. Besides, he cannot be trusted, he sees you at a rave and spends the night with you, but is he still with her?

tmotsoane · 07-18-2003, 08:34 AM

carry on to hang around. don't try to force him to realise that you want the two of you together! when he realises the kind of person you are, after sometime, he may consider coming back to you!

writerboybc · 07-18-2003, 01:32 PM

Well, there is a term that can be used to describe what it seems like you are to him: ****buddy. And, trust me, you don't want to be in that position with him, because it means that he's just using you for sex. You need to tell him that you're not going to hook up with him anymore unless he can commit to you. If not, then let him get what he wants with the new girl.

wondertwin44 · 07-18-2003, 09:38 PM

You're young. You don't love him. He doesn't love you. If he really did, he wouldn't have left you for that other girl. Just move on. I don't want to sound mean, but you need to wake up and get over him.

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Game over. I had to accept the fact that in life some women are simply better and no amount of shoes or lack of pastry or making of pies will change that. I will never be the woman with the perfect hair who can wear white and not spill on it and chair committees and write thank you notes. And I can't feel bad about that.
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