Washing after sexual activity.... - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

jamie157 · 07-20-2003, 06:24 AM

I was just wonderin if you guys/girls take a shower soon after sexual activity (manual/oral/intercourse) or just wait until your usual time (morning or night).

If you do wait do you just clean specific areas or something? And would you do this together or take turns in the bathroom with your partner?

Sorry this is similar to my last post "the mess after", but this is the main thin on my mind. thnks

happy go lucky · 07-20-2003, 08:46 AM

It is very, very important to clean up well after ex, as removing a condom can spread semen nas std's over your or your lovers hands or body!

However, I do not beleive in quickies. I think that sex should be as long lasting as you can make it and showering together or cleaning each other up sure increases the closeness and your time together.

Looking longingly at each other in th eshower after your passions have run down can be almost as apealing as sex itself.

Also keep cleaning up fun, a woman's best asset is a man imagination and vice versa!

i HAVE ALWAYS BELEIVED THAT IT IS NOT JUST SEX LIKE ANIMALS HAVE HUMANS MAKE LOVE SO WHY NOT EXTEND THE SITUATION AS LONG AS U CAN?
PLEZ USE CONDOMS AND BE SAFE!

jamie157 · 07-20-2003, 01:23 PM

Thanks, anyone else have advice>?

Karla · 07-20-2003, 03:52 PM

My husband and I just take turns in the bathroom washing up our private parts. That way it is quick and done with before the mess gets out of hand.

MrNice · 07-20-2003, 04:50 PM

After intercourse it's nice to take a shower. Generally you are pretty sweated up and pretty well covered in each other's fluids. In the case of a woman, if no condom was used and the man ejaculated in her vagina she probably will prefer to wash away any of the ejaculate that is leaking out of her vagina.

For oral a shower or at least being able to wash one's face and hands. Manual...washing hands for sure.