Bisexual? Lesbian? Straight? Help! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

daybreak01 · 08-19-2003, 01:08 PM

My name is Sarah and i just turned 17 last month. I also found out around the same time (early july) that my best friend of five years is bisexual. My boyfriend, who is also a close friend of my best, found out and told me. She had been keeping it a secret from me because she believed i would be dissapointed, upset etc. My boyfriend on the other hand found out a while ago that i was very bi-curious, and in typical male manner wanted to have a threesome. I have been going out with this guy for about a year and love him, he only approached the idea of a threesome after making sure i was comfortable with it. As i said before i was very curious about other girls in a sexual manner, and have had thought about it alot. I just have always been too afraid to do anything. Since finding out about her being bi, we have kissed and made out and both agreed it was very, very nice. Right now i don't really know how to act around her because i've been developing feelings of a sexual nature for her but at the same time, i still really care about her. I am really confused about my feelings for her and my feelings for my boyfriend...i love him but where does she fit in?

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~Sarah

lil_nikki · 08-19-2003, 05:01 PM

dont worry hunn every1 feels like thsi sum times, i sum times feel like i want to kiss and be all luved up with with other people but i know in the end that i am happier with my boyfriend theres certain things and feelings that u go through in a relationship that you have to hold on and get through dont worry, you'll know in your heart who you truely want to be with

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xxx lil' nikki xxx

Kate8 · 08-19-2003, 05:15 PM

In this case you got your boyfriend and you best friend.... you would do anything for ether of them but your boyfriend is the one. I mean if you break up with your boyfriend u gain sumthin lose sumthin. yet if you keep her a best friend, you win a friend and a boyfriend. Keep it simple baby.

martind586 · 08-21-2003, 10:55 PM

if you were trapped on an island for 1 year and you could only pick one person to be with,,,who would you pick????,,i would not have a 3 some,,,if you ever get in a fight with your boyfriend,,,i can hear it now,,," the other girl was better in bed then you ,,etc,,,or,,,they sleep with each other while you are out somewhere,,i hope that hasnt happened already,,,,better tell them both right now to stop this conversation,,,,,good luck