Severely lowered sex drive!!! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

hippapup · 08-22-2003, 02:06 PM

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a year now and when I first started f****** him I loved it and always wanted it. Now, a year later my sex drive has been decreasing dramatically. I think my boyfriend is as sexy as ever and I love our sex but I just don't want it. My boyfriend is constantly horny I feel bad that I can't give him what he wants because I just don't have my sexual cravings anymore. We use condoms and I'm not pregnet. I've also have had normal periods too and a while ago, my boyfriend suggested new positions but I just don't want to try them because I just plain out am not horny. Please help!!!

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headspun222 · 08-22-2003, 05:08 PM

try taking a break from most or all touch from eachother. im in the reversed situtation [as in my bf doesnt want sex but i do] and i think in time with you having a hands off relationship, it will kinda be like you arent dating anyone and you need that touch of affection again. i mean if you are dating someone, kissing and touching are regular occurances, but if you act like you arent dating, just friends who go out and spend time with eachother and no displays of affection, i think the sex drive and horniness will build up again. good luck!

mlgable · 08-23-2003, 06:22 PM

We all go through periods of not wanting sex as much and then we want it and then not etc. Since your boyfriend still wants it often tell him just what you said here to use and then take the time for the two of you to brainstorm on how to creatively meet his needs without actual intercourse.