need some advice on how to control my self - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

snopro879 · 08-25-2003, 08:39 PM

alright...it seems like i "climax" everytime im with my girlfriend...and all we do it make out, ive had my hand in her shirt a few times, but thats about the limit so far, and i get to excited and i end up ejaculating in my boxers...which is not a good thing at all. i was wondering if any of you could tell me a way to help me calm myself down and resist it, even tho i feel like i have no control over it.

Sc0tTsGiRl1605 · 08-25-2003, 08:50 PM

i dont think there is really a good way to stop your self from a climate.. but try and not thinkabout SEX!!!... tht might work... or just dot hav high hopes.. well my bf says that he thinks about old ppl to stop from getting a climate..dnt ask...
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snopro879 · 08-25-2003, 09:07 PM

i do try that actually...but it usually dont help...and its not like i can feel it comming, all of sudden its there and i have like a split second to do all i can to stop it...this is so aggrivating.

what if i taped the end of my penis so the *** wouldnt come out...or is that unhealthy?

staindkidx · 08-27-2003, 12:46 AM

don't do the taping of the penis thing.
if you do ejaculate, but you won't let it come out...
no. that's not good whatsoever.

no one here can tell you how to control yourself.
you have to set your own limits.
if you feel that you're getting too excited,
just step back. take a breather. relax for a second.
if you do that,
you'll eventually acknowledge when your body will ejactulate.
don't be ashamed to step away either.
talk about it with your girlfriend. trust me.
she won't mind.
she knows you're doing it cause she turned you on!

Amontillado · 08-27-2003, 08:32 AM

Well, you could excuse yourself before you get together with your lady, and masturbate. Doesn't sound like that would be very time-consuming! Of course, with young guys the stem can pop up again within a few minutes, but maybe you wouldn't ejaculate. Worth a try?