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euroboy86 · 08-19-2003, 08:18 PM

Hey people, do you think that people can become desensitized to normal sex with women because of masturbating too much?? Because last week I put on a condom and just didnt feel aroused at all by a girl laying there infront of me wanting sex..even though she teased me for the whole night, I went to bed and then she woke me up at around 2am and just said, common let's do it, without any foreplay or nothing..This is really worrying me and I havent been able to sleep at all for the past week due to this incident. Do you think if I stop masturbating and looking at pornography I will get the feeling back? Because I felt normal about a month ago and now its gone? someone please help, thanx.....

Apollo · 08-19-2003, 08:23 PM

When I am in a realtionship, I usually stop all masturbating or porn, so this doesn't happen. Give it a try, you'll become arroused easier, or maybe your like most men, and need more than just watching her to become aroussed.

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charris321 · 08-22-2003, 08:49 AM

I thikn you should stopmasturbation altogether or do it less so that when you do get to the point of having sex you are more arroused

gothstar666 · 08-28-2003, 12:48 AM

i think if it makes u happy to masturbate, then u should go right ahead and do it, but porn just put images in ur head that u r never gonna get...girls don't arouse u nemore because u expect it to be what u are used to looking at and that's not even close to what ur going to get