i need advice with this girl.. - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

dark4112 · 08-21-2003, 10:03 PM

ive been friends with this girl for a while, and just recently i admitted that i had feelings for her and she told me it was mutual. last night i was at her house, we were cuddling on a bed, and i seemed to be in the perfect position to kiss her.
i was looking right into her eyes, i had my face right infront of hers, etc. the problem is, im really shy! i couldnt get up the courage to lean in half an inch and kiss her.
i know it should just happen naturally.. and i cant change the past. but i cant stop regretting that i didnt do anything. so i just want to know if anyone has any advice for me? i really just want to know, if im going to do just a sweet first kiss, no tongue etc, how exactly should i do it? how long should it last? i know again, naturally, but just as a guideline?
thanks a lot!
-dark

Kate8 · 08-21-2003, 10:16 PM

I kno what you mean. I was ten when i had my first kiss and my guy made the move.. Here's what he did. just give her a peck or two then move on for a longer one. a first kiss( in my opinion) shouldnt have tongue. Firt see how her lips move and then just go with it! First, second, third and other kisses should be fun! So next time, if your shy, maybe its because you dontlike her LIKE THAT. just wait a bit longer and then try.

Best of Luck!

dark4112 · 08-21-2003, 10:20 PM

*i apologize if i misinterpreted your post*
im shy but not because im not sure about my feelings for her. i love her, i cant stand it when im not with her. all we do when we are together is cuddle and talk and its just about the only time im happy. now id love to kiss her, thats the only thing.

gothstar666 · 08-28-2003, 12:51 AM

if u really like this girl...then next time ur looking eye to eye, brush her hair from her eyes and lightly kiss her lips, it will be the sweetest kiss u'll ever have and i'm sure she'll enjoy it to, but just let it come, u'll know what to do

DoveTail · 08-28-2003, 08:54 AM

If your cuddling your girl, just give her small kisses in her forehead and in her cheek, then your soft, small kiss in ther mouth will arrive naturally.
Be carefull since your hands can get a bit mad on her body