hurting 'down there' - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

lauryn · 09-29-2003, 03:41 PM

i was at my boyfriends house 2 nights ago and we were having dry sex, the problem was that we ended up getting quite rough. It became painful and alough we stopped, my vigina lips were swollen and painful to tough. i am not a virgin(had sex with one previous partner but not my current one) but this has never happened before. i also noticed that today i had ticker discharge than normal and my vinana is still painful when thouched. I know that sometimes it can be painful after sex for a while but is this normal after 2 days or do you think there is a more serious problem?
i would really apriciate your advice.
thanx

MaLiBu34 · 09-29-2003, 06:25 PM

hey i have a similar problem. my b/f and i have had sex multiple times and in the past we used lifestyles condom and a spermicidal film for protection. well on thursday my mother and i brought new condoms (trojans) and a next day my b/f and i had sex. we used a condom and a film like every other time. well the next day it was sore and painful when i touched you know where. it doesn't hurt while i pee just afterwards. i notice a discharge as well. my pain is still there but it isn't as bad as it was at first. my mom said it might be because of the double amount of spermicidal because it was in the film as well as on the condom. she also said it might be an allergic reaction to the condom. it's been like this 2 days and i need some advice as to why this is happening. i will appreciate anyone's respond.

thanx

Tprincess · 10-01-2003, 11:44 AM

it sounds like you could have a bladder infection to tell you the truth...i had that same exact thing, it hurts after you pee..really bad..and down there can be really sensitive and there is a whiter discharge...condoms dont cause that lol....unless ur allergic to something on em!

fairiegoddess · 10-01-2003, 12:05 PM

i have major probs with bladder infections and have never had a discharge associated with it. discharge is coming out from a whole seperate area..

Apollo · 10-01-2003, 11:18 PM

ive had dry sex before and it can be irritating after awhile and it was good that u stopped but u prob have an infection from the abnormal amount of rubbing and may have some bacteria in there that shouldn't be. clean well with nonfragance soap and use some cream like vagasil for a few days. that should heal it, if it doesn't see ur gyno. next time use a lot of lub and maybe a different postion where ur controling the amount of trusting and preasure. dry sex works well if both of u like it so good luck.

posted by my g/f :-)

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