Was I taken advantage of? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

Teenie Wahini · 10-01-2003, 12:37 PM

I was at my bf's house a week or two ago and got pretty drunk. He was sober. We ended up having anal sex. He didn't force it on me at all..I kept begging him to do it (I get sexual when I'm drunk)..What do you guys think? I don't really care about it..I'm just wondering. Thanks.

joshsmith_99 · 10-01-2003, 12:47 PM

nah
i doubt you were taken advantage of, especially since you "begged" him to do it

curious333 · 10-01-2003, 02:57 PM

well if you begged him, that means that it was your idea so in my opinion no u were not taken advantage of

just_missing_u · 10-01-2003, 05:53 PM

Hey well it kinda depends on the relationship u have.. me n my b/f have an undersanding that if either of us are drunk or not ourselves then we can trust each other to say no....I think u may have been depending on what kind of relationship u have.. if he shows he cares about u and loves u a lot then prolly not but if yer sometimes not so sure how he feels about u then u prolly were.. i hope i helped....

Apollo · 10-01-2003, 11:11 PM

Alcohol can impair your judgement, so you could have possibly been taken advantage of. I have seen many cases in which the guy makes sure he's still sober, but lets his girlfriend, or a girl get drunk, so she is more easily suduced into actions, that she might not normally do when she is intoxicated.

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