How do you guys do this??? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

MuSIcGiRl0412 · 10-03-2003, 08:03 PM

Hi, my name is Kayla and I am * years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now and we have decided to have sex. I was wondering about something - I always read people's posts and there is usually something in it from teenagers saying "My boyfriend/girlfriend and I were lying there naked" or "she was naked and I was fingering her" or something like that. How do you get away with being so intimate with your boyfriend or girlfriend? What do you do about your parents? My boyfriend and I can't find someplace where we can be alone. Both of our parents won't allow us to be alone together because they are psycho. Also, neither of us have our drivers license yet. How do all of you be alone doing sexual acts within your homes? Are your parents just not there? Because if my parents were not here, my boyfriend wouldn't have transportation here because his parents would want to know that mine were here. Basically, I want to know how to do this. Please enlighten me. : )
Thanks.

{do not list your age on this board...limit your sexual health questions and replies to the teen sexual health board only, bfl}

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 10-03-2003).]

CrazyGal722 · 10-04-2003, 12:54 AM

Well, it sounds like even though you've decided to have sex with your boyfriend, you might not get a chance to do so for a little while. The only solution I can think of would be if one or both of you are 18 or over, you could rent a hotel room, it is kind of pricey but you wouldn't be disturbed. Otherwise ... maybe just wait! Sorry!

always · 10-04-2003, 10:58 AM

well... although i feel kinda weird replying to this... i don't plan on doing anything until after a year of going out and after i'm 18-- ATLEAST... [although neither of those are terribly far away...] i'd say try to wait off atleast until one of you gets your license- my b/f and i both have ours and trust me, even just going out to eat and what not is easier- atleast then you can get out and have a little privacy- as far as general intimacy... don't strip completely, if you get a while alone- keep the clothing on, just "work around it", if you will-- when you hear a parent or someone come up the stairs or down the hall, it's a lot easier to zip up your pants than put on everything again in a short amount of time-... --hm... i really don't know if anything i've said has helped, but in anycase, have fun and say safe!