dry sex and getting pregnant !!!help!!!!!!!!!!! - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

i_wondor · 10-04-2003, 12:28 PM

hey plaese help me like only two days ago i had dry sex with my boyfriend and i have done it alote cause i always thought that it was a safe way to go rather than sex and i never really worried about it before either cause we were always both wearing jeans but this time he was in his boxers and i was in pantys and i heard that you could get pragnant from that way to that way too that it can go through clothes and i am so scared but also i know that his penis didnt come out of the boxers and i think i pulled away from him before he ejaculated but im not sure and i talked to him about it right after words and about i was really worried and heard that dry sex and gett pragnant is possible and he siad he had been thinking the same thing and just didnt know how to talk to me about it and he was glade i brought it up and that he would start using a codom just in case but he doesnt know that im still really scared cause i dont know if it just cause im so freaked out about it but it seems like my body feels different and im not sure or not but i think i havc a yeast infection it feels just like other yeast infections i have had before and my vagina didnt touch his penis so i dont think it could; be any thing else but it does feel swollen but he also fingerd me too doyou think that could be it and i read another thread about a guy that was worried about getting his girlfriend pragnantcause he ejaculated on his boxers before they had dry sex and somone else repled that it wss very unlily cause the sperm or somthing dies pretty fast if it not in a vagina and doesnt the penis haft to be up inside and get to a certain spot where the egg is fertalized and i used the bathroom right afterwords and clean up just incase anything 3was left around and i was reading on this sighn that the one of the forsr sighns of pregnacy is having discharge and i have been having that latley and i was just going to wait to my pe3riod but then i heard you can still have your period hellllllllllllp sombody please help meeeeeeee!!!! im so scared

p.s. sorry so long i just really really need a reply

StupidFool · 10-04-2003, 12:42 PM

I think you're pretty safe. If both of you had your undies on and he didn't ejaculate you shouldn't be pregnant. Sperm has a tough time getting through fabric. Relax =)

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 10-05-2003).]

i_wondor · 10-04-2003, 01:01 PM

thanks for replyiing but im still really really scard im am so serious if i skip a priod im throwing my self down a huge flight of stairs seriously does anyone else no any one else have any helpfull advice

ripcurlsurf · 10-04-2003, 05:05 PM

Wow I lost my breath reading that.

I believe you are 100% safe from pregnancy as long as the semen did not touch anywhere on your vagina. If any did you increase your chance.

In all seriousness talking about it wont help you. I seriously suggest you visit a doctor and test for it so you know for sure - serious.

Your chances of pregnacy is very very low.

lil T · 10-08-2003, 07:32 PM

i dont think sperm is talented enough to crawl through boxers and all that...your pretty safe cuz only like a couple sperm survive even if he goes inside of you, it pretty unlikely your pregnant! dont worry yourself so much!