Is something wrong? - Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

bleep · 10-06-2003, 05:37 AM

About a week and a half (no more than 2 weeks) ago me and my girlfriend had protected sex. I did not "finish" and before we had intercourse we were involved in foreplay so I would last longer. Anyway, my girlfriend now feels that something is 'wrong' with her. She has had some pains in her stomach and thinks they aren't related to her menstrual cycle. I am fairly sure there was no accidents (tears, etc) . She says she was due yesterday, but previously has been irregular. She says she knows her body though. Does anyone have any ideas about what she's going through?

Thanks,
bleep

Lollirot_UK · 10-06-2003, 07:16 AM

Well it might be period pains, they can come a good few days before periods.
Perhaps it is a result of the position, I found that with my ex I would get very bad pains after sex due to the position we were in, I assume his penis was going in too hard where there was flesh and causing bruising - thats my theory at least, perhaps something similar is happening to her?
I wouldn't be too concerned about it, or at least I'd tell her not to be too concerned about it, to me it sounds as if you have had safe sex and it is likely to be something wrong with her due to periods, just make sure she is ok, if the pains continue and it is not linked with her period get her to go see a doctor or nurse about it just to make sure everything is ok.

bleep · 10-06-2003, 11:53 PM

Wow, positions can do that? Even though it happened about a week or so ago, she can still feel pain now?

bleep · 10-07-2003, 02:49 AM

Dear me. My girlfriend thinks that she is pregnant because she is 2 days late, she says. She also said that she pushes on her stomach and she feels "pain" (she is stressing alot). Is this pain possibly because she is pregnant? It's been exactly 7 days now..

ripcurlsurf · 10-07-2003, 02:21 PM

If in dought - check it out. You wont know for certain from here. Take your g/f to the doctors now to know for sure. Otherwise this will be playing on your mind for a while.