Re: please help. I can't get my boyfriend to climax
You should not feel guilty or ashamed. You are doing nothing wrong -- in fact your boyfriend no doubt appreciates what you are doing for him. You are certainly giving him a great deal of pleasure and you are definitely not a failure. The fact is that a lot of guys cannot ejaculate during oral sex. For me, oral sex is an enjoyable and stimulating preparation for vaginal sex, not an ejaculatory end in itself -- and I wouldn't have it any other way.
You are both having an enjoyable, intimate and satisfying relationship with what you are doing. Continue to do that and feel happy about it. My best wishes to you both.
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