Re: First time ever!
Before having sex for the first time, I would encourage you to first have a serious talk with your girlfriend, discuss birth control and her feelings. You do not want to just find yourself having sex without any planning. If even discussing it makes you uncomfortable, I would wait until you can. If she is going to be using the pill or other types of birth control, she will need to already be seen by her doctor before you have sex, for it to be effective. You will also need to have condoms on hand for prevention of std's.
Your first time only happens once in your life, and I encourage you to make it memorable with someone you really love. Never kiss and tell, and never be afraid to say no.