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Old 03-12-2003, 08:21 PM   #1
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My husband and I have been talking about having a threesomes with another girl, I'm kind of curious but now he's talking about bringing a couple into this. He wants me to watch him go down on a guy, just the thought makes me sick. The more I think about having a threesome or foursome the more I think it's a real a bad idea. One more thing, also my husband has been telling about all these gay experiences he had and how much he liked them, I'm starting to get really worried. What should i do about all this. I so confused.
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I am no expert on this subject...but then I'm not sure I have to be. The basic course of action is to do what YOU feel comfortable doing and nothing more. You should never be coerced or "guilted" into to anything that doesn't set well with you. Let your head do the thinking... Let your husband just keep dreaming his fantasies... there is no reason you should submit to such a thing if it causes you so much distress just thinking about it.

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Have a talk with your husband and tell him how you feel... You should really only do something that you're comfortable with, and watching somebody do something to your husband counts as you "Doing" something.

 
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Believe me, once this kind of situation starts, there is no going back. If he has had gay experiences and wants to repeat them he is probably bisexual. Are you ready for that? It does sound as if he has no intention of stopping for your sake and as if he is really into it all. There is nothing wrong with being gay, or bisexual, as long as both partners agree. You obviously do not.

Think long and hard about this one. This is not going to go away. Decide if this is something you can handle in your relationship, and if the answer is no, then you may have to move on.

In a successful relationship, both partners should agree on this kind of subject. Sex is a very intimate act, not to be taken lightly. Also consider the dangers of STD's and AIDS.

I truly doubt he will only ask you to watch him perform sex on another man. In the heat of the moment it will probably turn into penetration. If not, then it will in the future. Are you ready to witness that? I doubt it.
He should not expect you to see that if you don't agree... it's hard, I know, but are you willing to be with someone who has other sexual issues, different to yours?

Think long and hard and go with your gut feeling. Good luck!
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I agree with NELA. Do not do anything you do not want to do. I certainly would not lower my standards with this man. Badgirl

 
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