I cant get wet - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

SwEeT BaBy LoVe · 08-29-2002, 08:50 AM

Hi everyone
Ok heres the thing I have been having well sex with my b/f for about 7 almost 8 months he is great at everything. But i just cant get wet. But when i was with my x b/f i would always get really wet. i dont know what it is...can u help?
<3 always
SweetBaby

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siobhan · 08-29-2002, 09:01 AM

The one time that I had this problem, I thought that it had to be physical, but it was pyschological. I believe that it was my body's way of telling me that things weren't quite 'right' in the relationship, and therefore my body wasn't cooperating with me.

But, that was my personal experience, and might not be the reason in your case, but I think that it's something worth considering.

In the meantime, try using lubrication, if anything, it is fun to use.

penny07 · 08-29-2002, 09:47 AM

maybe he doenst turn you on as much.try to see if you can make yourself wet play with your clit. or maybe have more foreplay

mlgable · 08-30-2002, 08:24 AM

Do you get wet when you are alone and masturbating? If you do then it would just be the guy is not making you wet either because you need more foreplay or for whatever reason. If you don't get wet with masturbation now then you may want to add some lubricant before sex. You didn't state your age but you can become dryer so to speak as you get old and closer to peri menopause.

Queen Toof · 08-31-2002, 07:16 PM

I had this problem for the first 2 years of my marriage. I was taking Diane35 Birth Control Pills. I don't know if all BC pills do it or if it's just that brand but I had the hardest time in the world getting wet. Since going off I am also more in the mood...

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