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Old 05-22-2003, 02:25 PM   #1
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Question Are females shy to masturbate infront of guys?

I was with a girl recently, and during foreplay I suggested that she masturbate a little and she said no and had a disgusted look on her face. I'm wondering if she was shy or thought that I would think that she does it all the time or something. If she does what is wrong with that? Its a turn-on and a very sexy act for males to watch during foreplay?
Do you ladies feel like its wrong to masturbate in front of guys?

 
Old 05-22-2003, 03:35 PM   #2
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I don't mind doing so with my dh but not all women feel that way. It takes good communication and trust to know why and that your man likes it and isn't going to tease you about it or harrass you over it. Not all girls masterbate most do but not all. Some girls are very shy and private others are more open.

 
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Old 05-22-2003, 04:29 PM   #3
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i never used to like the idea of mstubating for past b/f but the last one i was with i loved him like nothing else on earth. i always used to masturbate while making love and even just in front of him while he watched. most men find it a mega turn on. i certainly wouldnt be shy to do it again.
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I was very uncomfortable masturbating in front of any guy until I got married. I think some girls just have to reach a certain level of comfort and security. My husband really gets turned on by it.

Think about this, though... I know it's one of those few sexual double standards that actually favor women, but would you want to masturbate in front of her? My husband still wouldn't jerk off in front of me, and frankly, I don't want to see it. LOL. It just doesn't seem like a very sexy thing. Others may feel differently, but that's just us.

 
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i used to LOVE my ex to masurbate over my chest. what a huge turn on!! lol
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Old 05-22-2003, 09:15 PM   #6
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I love to masterbate for my boyfreind,and some of my past boyfreinds. And yes,some girls are just more private about it,and ALL girls and guys masterbate,i think. I think that most of them just keep it very very private. Maybe you should tell her that it is a major turn on for you,and that she should not be ashamed of masterbating. Some girls were taught that masterbating is wrong also. Sooo i dunno.

 
Old 05-24-2003, 07:19 AM   #7
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I lay on the floor and have my b/f stand over me and we both masterbate. He can hold off until I start to orgasm and let me tell you, theres nothing like getting off while getting splattered with my mans hot stuff!! OMG!!! And it is so neat to watch too!!!!

 
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Heck no! I've never been shy!
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Old 06-16-2003, 11:03 AM   #9
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I met my wife 20 years ago. We have sex since then and we are now married for 18 years.

At first my wife was, say, rather shy with the sexual stuff.

Ater a couple of years, we discovered this pleasure of looking at each other while masturbating.

We still enjoy it very much.

Neither of us feel unconfortable masturbating himself/herself if the position we are into doesn't allow the partner to reach the genital area with the hands or mouth.

 
Old 06-16-2003, 12:51 PM   #10
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I didnt think I could do that in front of any guy, but once I did, and realized how much it turned him on, i dont mind at all. And if your guy is pretty intent on watching, he will catch on to exactly what pleases you the most! For me its a HUGE turn on knowing my guy is watching me!

 
Old 06-17-2003, 04:22 AM   #11
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Sissy woman, OOO yeah, me and my boyfriend do the SAME thing...that is SOOOOOOO hot!

 
Old 06-17-2003, 06:43 AM   #12
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Depends on the female.

 
Old 06-17-2003, 07:53 AM   #13
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my bf and i have always struggled with having been taught that masterbation is a terrible sin and it should never be done...so when i can't orgasm from him and it's driving me nuts and i just wanna do it myself, he won't let me 'cause he's afraid that it'll just make me feel bad...sometimes i think he's right and other times i just wanna do it...even in front of him (which i used to think i'd never do something like that)...

 
Old 06-18-2003, 04:15 PM   #14
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not all women masturbate, contrary to what porno movies tell you. personally I don't.

 
Old 06-20-2003, 05:28 AM   #15
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I need a females advice, my gf says she has never masterbated and just sees no need in it. Our sex life isn't great at all, so I suggested to her that maybe if she tried masterbating maybe she could enjoy sex more and want it more. So my question is, in what ways can I go about or what other things can I try to do to convince her? Please help.

 
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