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Old 07-22-2003, 11:16 PM   #1
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Hi there,

I'm just wondering if a virgin girl could ever have an orgasm..if yes, would it be harder for a virgin to get an orgasm? .. Thanks

 
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Old 07-23-2003, 06:41 AM   #2
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What type of orgasm are you refering to? Through self masterbation or actual sex with a partner? It's possible to have orgasms both ways for a virgin, but not every person is the same. You can't base what "might" happen to you as per what has happened to another female. Some females can orgasm through masterbation, but have difficulty with a partner, some women don't have a problem either way and others can have an orgasm but need to be in control of the situation or need clitoral stimulation........seriously the list is endless. Just take a look at previous posts or do a search using the word orgasm or virgin and you should get a stack of hits on this board with lots of info from previous people's replies.

 
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Old 07-23-2003, 11:09 AM   #3
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You can have an orgasm at any age regardless if you are a virgin or not. The best way to know what feel good for you is to take time to explore your own body before ever even think of having sex so you know how to guide your partner when you do decide you are ready for intercourse.

 
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I don't quite get your question. I'm not following the connection between virginity and orgasms.

Men who are virgins can still have orgasms, why would a woman not be able to?

 
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Since most women masturbate by rubbing their clitoris a virgin can certainly do the same as the clitoris is outside the vaginal opening. The only thing a virgin (assuming by virgin we mean that her hymen is intact) couldn't do is masturbate using something which is inserted into her vagina.


 
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I'm 23, and a "technical" virgin (meaning I haven't had actual intercourse) but my boyfriend and I have found creative ways to get me to come to orgasm, incl. orally, and with his fingers inside me and rubbing me. It's been quite an intimate learning experience for us - me a virgin, and him quite experienced, but looking for a clean slate now

 
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Being a virgin has nothing to do with an intact hymen. Many women break their hymen during physical activities so that doesn't mean they aren't a virgin. A virgin refers to someone who has never had intercourse. A virgin can full well use something inside her for masturbation and this would not make her any less of a virgin that someone who doesn't use toys.

 
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Being a virgin has nothing to do with an intact hymen. Many women break their hymen during physical activities so that doesn't mean they aren't a virgin. A virgin refers to someone who has never had intercourse.
ITA! Heavens, WHEN is this society going to get over the old wives tale that being a virgin means an intact hymen?!?!? Mine broke at the gyno, for crying out loud. It's too fragile of a membrane to stay intact until first intercourse; even horseback riding can break it!


 
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