Help!!! We did the 'pull-out' method...first time i ever did that, and he says of course he'll pull out when he feels it comin, but does he feel precum? Is precum unexpected? He thinks hes sure about the whole pulling out method but is he totally clueless if he precumed or if he felt it or what not??
You must always use protection when dealing with sex as precum is not always real visible and most men don't realize they are leaking it. Sex without protection is just plain risky no matter how you look at it.
Men cannot tell when they produce pre-ejaculate unless they happen to notice it coming it out of their urethra. If his penis is in your vagina which normally is quite moist while you have intercourse there is no way he will know whether that moisture is a result of your lubrication or his pre-ejaculate. As others have written, pre-ejaculate can contain sperm which can result in your becoming pregnant whether or not he actually ejaculates into your vagina.
As for the "pull-out" method, most young men get very excited when they have intercourse and can easily fail to realize how close they are to ejaculating. While they may be well intentioned in meaning to "pull-out" they can orgasm and begin to ejaculate without realizing it. As the first spurt of semen in the ejaculation is usually the most potent portion (highest sperm count) simply having that first portion of the ejaculate released in or around your vagina can easily result in pregnancy.
The solution, short of abstinence, is for him to always wear a condom when his penis is in or near your vagina. As extra protection if you have intercourse you should use a contraceptive too. Also, the condom is a very good way to protect yourself and your partner from any STD's. Be safe...not sorry.