My girlfriend is agreat gal who I have fallen in love with. She is in a wheelchair but is very independant. I would like to take our relatioship to a sexual level but need to know "Can disabled women have sex"?
She still has a vagina, right? Then, I would think you can.
Whether she can feel much or have an orgasm, I think is dependent on where and how much nerve damage there was. I'm sure there are others who know more about this.
Whether her vagina works or not you can still have a sexual relationship with her. There is a lot more to sex than penis in vagina, right? You'll need to know the full extent of her injury of course and you definitely need to be open with her and find out how she feels about it. Most disabled people have sexual lives; they may be different from yours or mine but they're satisfying nonetheless. As Amy said, treat her the same way you would treat any other woman. Have fun!
why don't you talk to her. see how she feels, she would know better than anyone if she could have sex. tell her that you want to take the relationship to a more intimate level but you want to know how she would feel about it.