Can A Woman Be Allergic To Semen ?
am at a point where i know theres a problem but there nothing i can do to correct it so i am coming to you for advice. I dont know if its me, my partner or us both but after countless visits to the doctor with counless unsuccessful diagnosises, i decided to look elswhere for help concerning this frustrating situation that we cannot seem to shake. I am a 26 year old male and I noticed this problem problem about 7 years ago after becoming sexually involved with my partner and now present fiance` who is also 26. Everytime we have intercourse and i ejaculate inside of her; 1 day later problems arise. Her vagina starts to (literally) smell like a dead carcus with a slight acidic uriny after smell. Her urine begins to smell acidic and she becomes so dry that if we try penetration is attempted, it is very painful since she says the friction feels like an indian burn. When she gets like this she can get so acidic that sometimes it can irritate the skin on my penis and cause a light goosebumpish rash (not on the head) which dissapears within an hour after wiping the fluids off. My urine also begins to smell like her's with the strong acidic smell to it; something like stale, dried up urine in the corner of an alley way. We've been tested as a couple for all infections and STD's known to western medicine and they all came up negative with no explanation to our problems. We try to stay hydrated and drink about 4 liters of water each, a day, which i hope should eliminate the notion of possible dehydration.
For the past year we have been in seperate Medical schools on different sides of the country and we see each other every 2 months now. Every time we meet after being away for that time, our symptoms always seem to strangely clear up with no trace. No use of antibiotics or other drugs; thats until we try to experiment again to see if the problem is gone and i ejaculate in her. After that, all the symptoms in "BOTH" of us resurface and we are back at square again until the next 2 months when we meet again. Its like a never ending battle and i am here posting this message today to see if anyone else has experienced this. We are STD free and according to all western doctor visits and bloodtests we were told to be infection free too.
How can she not have "any" symptoms and/or smell to her discharge or urine whatsover before ejaculation; while at the same time, i dont have "any" symptoms and/or smell to my urine until i ejaculate in her ? I am her second partner and in the longgg past she told me she had unprotected sex with a partner many times who she dated for over a year. She said he ejaculated in her also but never once did she experience anyone of these symptoms as she does with me. Me on the other hand have not had unprotected sex with anyone else but her in my life and i only had 2 other partners before her.
Is there something wrong with me, her or us both ? Did anyone ever hear of this or do you think that there is some kind of infection in one of us that the doctors overlooked which is why our body react like this when our fluids are mixed ? Does anyone know if its possible for a woman to be allergic to a mans semen and/or vice versa; a man to a womans discharge ?
I dont know what to do anymore and i feel like this is putting a great pressure on our relationship. This is the woman i want to be my wife and i want to preserve our energy in the relationship for bigger things.
Please Help If You Can
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