Sperm Help !!!!!: ) - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

Moonunit · 03-04-2004, 10:06 AM

I hope this doesn't gross anyone out.
I'm on birth control and my bf and I have been having otherwise unprotected sex. He ejaculates inside of me, which is great for us sexually-- But does it have any adverse side effects for my vagina? Will it change the ph? Cause yeast infections?
It takes some getting used to- Just in terms of clean up after and such. I don't know if I like it as much as pulling out or using condoms. I feel a little selfish not wanting him to ejaculate inside me, I'm divided about it.
Does anyone else have any problems? Advice?
Any would be greatly appreciated.
Much love

Calixte_Silas · 03-04-2004, 10:34 AM

It shouldn't cause any sort of problems as far as infection or changes in pH. The vagina was built to accept semen, so it shouldn't really have any adverse effects.
As for the clean up, that can be take care of with a towel. I've heard if you 'push' like you're bearing down, it can help expel most of the semen right away and avoid most of the 'dripping' afterwards.

Budko · 03-04-2004, 10:36 AM

I have been married for 4 years and I still have a problem with it. It is messy and it leaks out alllllllllllllllllllllllllllll night long. I have a tendacy to itch the whole next day. I don't think I ever got a yeast infection from it. I am very selfish when it comes to that. but, we go back and forth. It is compromise. It also depends on the mood. I have been wanting to try that female condom. Have you tried that? I wonder if the feeling is the same as with a male condom. Oh and I think Condoms STINK!

I hope I helped or at least let you know you are not alone. Good Luck!

Wishing you Health, Wisdom , and Happiness
Kim

ConfusedChick769 · 03-04-2004, 11:39 AM

I am also on birth control and my bf ejaculates in me I have no problem with it I don't like when he pulls out cuz it feels gross on my stomach, breasts whatever. I absolutly hate condoms so he always ejaculates in me. After sex I get up and go to the bathroom (non really comes out on the way to the bathroom or anything). I sit on the toilet and push as if I was going pee and all the semen comes right out of me. So i don't have tio deal with the afterwards dripping or whatever. I hope I could help

brendiqueen · 03-04-2004, 12:17 PM

My husband ejaculates inside of me, and what I do is rinse/shower right away.. It's recomended by the Doctor anyway since it helps prevent UTI.. So, I try to drink some water before we have sex that way I "pee" afterwards and that helps even more then I just get the water going and my "dove" bar and clean the area.. I know it sounds like a lot of work, but I think it's worth it (both for hygiene and health) I think..