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Old 05-15-2004, 02:16 AM   #1
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Losing Virginity

My boyfriend and I both are ready and want to have sex (we are both virgins). However, every time he tries to penetrate me, the pain is so intense we have to stop. I think the furthest he has gone in is about 3 inches. We have tried using lubricant on lubricated condoms, but the pain is unlike anything I've experienced before, and it's difficult for him to move further inside me (which is odd, considering that we use lubricant). I have never used a tampon; and I've never been able to put in anything thicker than a tampon without feeling sharp pains.

I know I should just grin and bear it and get the first few times over with, but I wondered what your first times were like, and if there is anything to do to ease the pain and difficulty? We are both getting very frustrated, and I'd really appreciate any advice anyone could give me.

 
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Old 05-15-2004, 06:19 AM   #2
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Re: Losing Virginity

I just wanted to say that you and your boyfriend are no virgins anymore no matter if it was painful or not.

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Old 05-15-2004, 04:34 PM   #3
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Re: Losing Virginity

You may have grin and bear it for a while. You can use fingers or small dildos to help try to stretch yourself out, or see your gynocologist if the pain continues after several more attempts.

 
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Re: Losing Virginity

You shouldn't have to grin and bear it. Are you nervous? Even if u are ready to have sex u need to relax..maybe have him give u oral sex before intercourse..that helped me the first few times. If that doesn't work you should probably go to ur gyno.

 
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Re: Losing Virginity

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