I've looked all over the web, and all I have been able to find is info on vaginal dryness. My problem is too much vaginal wetness I get so wet sometimes I can't feel my boyfriend during sex. He also has problems having an orgasim sometime because of the lack of friction. I started taking Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo and that helped but only a little. Do I need more estrogen or less? Is there something else I can do? Can anyone help? What can I do to decrease vaginal wetness.
You know, you're right. I haven't read anything on being too wet. I don't actually have an answer to that - I myself always have problems with dryness! I know that it's probably really annoying (or else you wouldn't be writing) but just try and be thankful that you don't experience pain from the dryness. There are tons of women out there it would give anything in your position (to not have to whip out a jar of lube evertime)
I was reading a book last week and it said to use honey. Yep, regular honey will give more friction so that you can feel your boyfriend. It's harmless but a little messy so don't put it on the outside.
I have that same problem, hun. Its annoying in itself because i can not stay on top because it slides out do to the enormous amount of wetness. If someone has a solution please share it. It's like i come pre-packaged already lol.
well i noticed that i can become wet really easily.
but that usually used to happen when i used to use some sort of scented wipes right before sex having sex.
guess those provided some sort of a lubrication.
therefore i stopped using them.
i wash thoroughly right before me and my fiance get into bed and wipe myself with a cotton towel so that the vaginal area is totally dry.
i noticed that this helps in decreasing the amount of wetness.
hope that helps.
Well I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one with this problem...which makes you think there would be more info. on the subject. Thanks for your suggestions...I'll try them in a couple of days right now isn't the right time of the month. I don't know if anyone has tried the pill it helped me...but only a little. I have to go to the Dr. in a couple of months so I'll ask if higher estrogen would be more helpful or harmful. I'll keep you guys updated
I used to be dry all the time. Then I started using a progesterone creme because I started perimenopause. Now I am really really wet during sex. Sometimes there is huge wet spot on the bed after sex. So I would say higher progesterone levels causes wetness.
Sometimes we put a towel under us, and he wipes the wetness off during sex with the towel.
not sure how old you are but whenever i've had that problem it was usually 'cause i hadn't had it for a while or was anticipating all day so i just drank tons of soda or a couple of alcoholic beverages (not advocating drinking here , ok) it seemed to have a dehydrating effect sometimes. i recently had surgery and can't have sex for a while and it's awful 'cause i know i'll just be a mess when it's time to get back in the swing, either way be happy it's not the opposite, that can be painful.Good Luck
I used to have this same problem but ever since I started taking my birth control I've noticed a HUGE difference. I used to get reeeeaally wet and now it takes a while for me to acheive that. My boyfriend gets annoyed sometimes cuz he thinks that I'm not into it but it's really just the pills. I'm on Ortho Tricyclen Lo. Hope this helps.
As with other male respondents on this thread, be glad you are wet. When it's the opposite both partners are doubting / concerned. Be open and talk about it and laugh since it is a beautiful thing and should be enjoyed by all. We (I) love it when my partner is gushing, and when she is not, we work that into our foreplay as well (think about ways to be extra prepared for either way and have fun).
my gf always gets very wet and i love it. By the time i get her in her underwear, her panties are always soaked right through and her whole vaginal area is very wet, i like it. It shows me that she is really turned on and the more she lubricates herself, the longer i last...the more wetness the better! And i bet most of the guys will agree with me!
If the extra wetness prevents you from having orgasms during intercourse, telll him and then he can give you more stimulaton, eitehr by hand or oral, before or after intercourse, and the extra wetness will aid in this too!