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Old 06-07-2004, 07:20 PM   #1
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Orgasm while asleep, but NEVER while having sex!?!

What is going on? I have never had an orgasm during sex and I am a 31-year-old female. Starting about 2-years-ago, I started having orgasms while asleep (I didn't know what in the world it was at the time). Now, the question is, how can I have one when I'm awake!?! I feel so abnormal! And why do I have them when I'm asleep?!? Please help.

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Old 06-07-2004, 09:18 PM   #2
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Are you saying you have never had an orgasm during intercourse or never had one during any kind of sexual activity altogether, including by yourself?

As for why you're having them while you're asleep, I guess your body has decided it's going to have sexual relief regardless of your active participation. It happens to a lot of women.

 
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Old 06-08-2004, 06:21 AM   #3
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Re: Orgasm while asleep, but NEVER while having sex!?!

I am saying I have never had an orgasm during intercorse, never had one during any kind of sexual activity including by myself. Never, ever at any time. I have only experienced them when I'm asleep. Actually, I've never done anything "by myself". I just can't seem to do that, it seems strange to me. Any suggestions will help.

 
Old 06-08-2004, 06:38 AM   #4
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Re: Orgasm while asleep, but NEVER while having sex!?!

Read some erotica written by women and learn to pleasure yourself. Once you can reach orgasm on your own and the mechanics are familiar you will have a better chance with your partner cuz you can tell them what works for you. It should not feel wierd after the first success! Your friends might begin to wonder how come you stay in the house on Friday nites now. It also helps to get familiar with your body. Get a hand mirror or a digital camera and have a good look at the pleasure center. It is beautiful.

 
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Re: Orgasm while asleep, but NEVER while having sex!?!

It's called wet dreams.....and even women get them. I've had them before and they've woken me out of dead sleeps before. I have both, awake and sleeping and have no problems with either!
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