Hey, i was wondering if anyone else shared this "problem" with me. often when my boyfriend and i are making out and everything else before sex, it tickles me so bad that i just cant take it! its mostly when he touches me with his hands- all over my legs, chest, and tummy- i have to push his hands away and he can barely touch me at all. when he kisses my thighs, breasts, and tummy it is just unbearable and i just want it to stop because it tickles so much! i have to really concentrate very hard at relaxing every muscle in my body so that it wont tickle so much, and then its not as enjoyable because im focusing so much on relaxing, and not twitching around! i never used to be this bad... what can i do?!
I'm very ticklish and sensitive (especially my breasts) and we make this part of our foreplay. My b/f often says it makes it more exciting for him when I'm laughing and squirming around and I don't mind myself.
I've tried to concetrate and not let it tickle me but it is almost impossible so I just go with it.
haha...I'm quite ticklish as well but not as much as you it seems. Although, it turns my man on when he's tickling me and I'm laughing and trying to get away. I don't know why but even when we're just sitting there if he starts tickling me he'll get horny REAL quick! haha No complaints here.
maybe have him touch you a little rougher? If it is less of a soft carress maybe it will tickle less. I can't run my fingers down my husbands side or he goes into fits, but I can use my whole hand without tickling him.
My ex was like this too. Plain old caressing would drive him nuts and he'd start squirming. As a joke everytime he started getting getting too ticklish I'd slap him instead. He would laugh because it would take the tickle away so quickly.Your bf needs to be a little more firm and rough than average touching. Not abusive, you get the point.
