Does Anyone Have a Problem with?? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

LoveMyWay71 · 09-14-2004, 05:15 PM

ok, i have 2 problems.. that are kind of embarassing, and annoying too...

1rst one is i am tight... i hate this, i don't sex that often and maybe this is why, but sometimes it is hard for the guy to penetrate me...

2nd one..is i have a problem staying lubricated.. can anyone relate???

do you have any suggestions ?? this is embarassing...

cocoeyes · 09-14-2004, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by LoveMyWay71

ok, i have 2 problems.. that are kind of embarassing, and annoying too...

1rst one is i am tight... i hate this, i don't sex that often and maybe this is why, but sometimes it is hard for the guy to penetrate me...

2nd one..is i have a problem staying lubricated.. can anyone relate???

do you have any suggestions ?? this is embarassing...

Maybe your not stimulated enough or something. Tell your man next time to use more 4-play.

LoveMyWay71 · 09-14-2004, 09:13 PM

it isn't the man, it is me.. because this has happened before with other men. i do take anti-depressents but if i remember corectly this happened before i started taking the ad's ... i really do hate it though.... but thanks for ur reply

analog2000 · 09-14-2004, 11:39 PM

The two are probably related. And I can understand that your libido is down, it is probably uncomfortable for you.

Try getting a bunch of different lubricants and seeing how that goes. Use a lot and use the kind that are made for sex, not hand lotion or anything like that. You can get these at sex shops, or just at the drugstore. K-Y is one of the more common brands.

By the way, "tightness" is not related to how much sex you have! Everybody is just different. Also, maybe it just feels tight b/c you are so dry?

Good luck.

Candice561 · 09-15-2004, 12:07 AM

Like analog2000 said, Lubricant is a GREAT thing when you're not producing enough natural lube. When I was on the pill, I couldnt stay lubricated by myself even if we were using lubricated condoms. It just wasnt enough for me. Try the K-Y which you can get from the local drug store. It works wonders. As for the tightness, you'll loosen up. Trust me...
When I first started having intercourse with my boyfriend, it hurt and it was tight... but as you do it more and more you loosen up. Everyones different and you dont have to worry!

Good luck with everything and dont be embarrassed to ask questions! We're here to help!!