ugly vagina. - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

dinosaurlove · 09-28-2004, 11:04 PM

im convinced i have an ugly vagina. i get self concious about it cause its not symetrical. one of my lips is quite larger than the other. my bf always goes down on me,but im always scared he is secretly grossed out.

anyone else feel this way?

is there anything you can do about it?

ILikeRats · 09-28-2004, 11:53 PM

It's very very common. I've read a lot of posts on message boards from women asking the same thing. There's nothing you can do to change it other than expensive surgery when you're an adult and have thousands of dollars to throw around, but I think it would be a waste of money. Our bodies aren't supposed to be perfectly symmetrical. Don't worry that your boyfriend minds; I'm sure it doesn't faze him. You could always ask him; I'll bet he says he didn't even notice.
There's a book called "Femalia." It's a little picture book of many different women's private parts, so you can see just how normal you are!!

natthebug · 09-29-2004, 12:03 AM

I think it is very normal. In fact most women are probably that way in some areas of the vagina. I think if your BF minded he would be reluctant to not go down. If it bothered him he just wouldn't do it. I agree he probably doesn't even notice. They are so darn turned on by that area. I don't think they would care if it was blue

LOL Smelly maybe. But uneven , naahhh. Have you ever pai attention to his Penus. Do you think every little line or ridge or shaft or any part of it is perfectly symetrical??? I doubt it is.

Kiera1595 · 09-29-2004, 07:30 AM

Soooooooo normal!! When I was about 15 I heard someone say that you should straddle a mirror and take a look at yourself down there. I did. I was horrified. It was the ugliest thing I could imagine. It took me years to work up the courage to do it again, but when I did it wasn't that bad. I'm not symetrical...and it doesn't matter. In the meantime I have seen a ton of pictures of women's privates (I have an odd job) Very few are, and I'm sure a bunch are airbrushed like every other picture of women in magazines. If your boyfriend thought it was awful, he wouldn't go down there. Try to embrace your body's individuality, every part of it!!

zaq123 · 09-29-2004, 10:49 AM

Just a males prespective since i've seen my fair share. They are like snowflakes, no 2 are alike, and if no 2 are alike, there can be no such thing as "normal". that's part of what makes it hot, each one is different, relax.