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Old 11-17-2004, 10:51 PM   #1
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Orgasms

Ok me and my girl have sex. When im done, she tells me that shes prolly had 3-4 orgasms. (This is usually when i go down on her) When we have regular intercourses, she tells me that shes had 1 or 2. Im posting this thread because im confused. When I go down, I dont see nothing, nothing that appears to look like ejaculate. When men have orgasms we release fluids n stuff. Im starting to think that either.

1. Im not doing my job right and shes lying
2. She dosnt know what an orgasm is
3. I dont know what and orgasm is.

I think an orgasm can come from both the clitoris and the vagina. Ive watched certain porn and ive seen women [ejaculate] on themselves (the same color as semen) but what i see on tv may be edited or not real. Can someone explain to me what the real female orgasm is like please?

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Old 11-18-2004, 08:40 AM   #2
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Re: Orgasms

There are women who do ejaculate with orgasms but they are few and far between. Women do tend to get wetter with orgasms but they dont generally squirt. Those that do ejaculate it tends to be clear liquid. You cant base how you orgasm to how she should orgasm. Our bodies are so different that it goes almost without saying that our orgasms will be different as well.
You have to realize porn is very rarely real since it is mostly based on fantasy. So while watching them dont compare your gf's reactions during sex to those in porn.
Go to your local bookstore and look in the relationship sections and read the sex education books.
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Old 11-18-2004, 10:41 AM   #3
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Re: Orgasms

And many times what you see coming out of a woman in a porn movie is lube that they inserted beforehand. Some also use spermicide, which is usually white in color.

 
Old 11-23-2004, 10:46 PM   #4
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Re: Orgasms

Ok would anyone be willing to tell me where it comes from? Silly me.. Ive never seen one. And I recently started having sex. Im not really familar with the anatomy of the vagina so if someone would please tell me where the fluid comes from. I hear that there are 2 different types of orgasms a female can experience. Can someone tell me:

1. Where the fluid ( from both the vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm ) comes from.
2. Which orgasm should I best focus on trying to achieve.( Vaginal or Clitoral )

Im sorry people. Your prolly reading this and laughing but im new to the world of sex. And im trying to get an early jump. Thank You

 
Old 11-24-2004, 07:43 AM   #5
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Re: Orgasms

The vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm are so named because of what is being stimulated at the time, not because each part has their own separate orgasm. The orgasm itself is just an orgasm. They may feel different for the woman, but they originate from same nerves and it's the same muscles and orgasns that contract. (Saying they're different is like saying a man has two types of orgasms too, one from oral, one from intercourse.)

As for the fluid, a very few number of woman actually ejaculate during orgasm, and if she does, it's through the urethra. This most often happens during vaginal penetration, but not exclusively. In general it seems a lot of women don't care if they ejaculate during sex, so unless your gf is dying to do it, I wouldn't worry about that being your goal. Most women are probably quite contents with their 'regular' orgasms.

As for question 2, since only 10-30% of women orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, I think your odds would be better focussing on the clitoral orgasm.

Now not to stomp on your sexual prowess, I have to comment on the questions from your first post. I hate to say it, but if your gf claims she is having up to 6 orgasm at each encounter with you, I would think she is totally exagerating. As to why she would do this, you would have to ask her, but she probably doesn't mean anything bad by it. I'm guessing immaturity. It is an unfortunate practice of some women to feel obligated to have 'easy' orgasms to show their partners how good they are. Asside from her not ejaculating, is there any reason to think she is not orgasming, or are you totally taking her word for it?

 
Old 11-24-2004, 09:47 AM   #6
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Ok me and my girl have sex. When im done, she tells me that shes prolly had 3-4 orgasms. (This is usually when i go down on her) When we have regular intercourses, she tells me that shes had 1 or 2. Im posting this thread because im confused. When I go down, I dont see nothing, nothing that appears to look like ejaculate. When men have orgasms we release fluids n stuff. Im starting to think that either.

1. Im not doing my job right and shes lying
2. She dosnt know what an orgasm is
3. I dont know what and orgasm is.

I think an orgasm can come from both the clitoris and the vagina. Ive watched certain porn and ive seen women [ejaculate] on themselves (the same color as semen) but what i see on tv may be edited or not real. Can someone explain to me what the real female orgasm is like please?
Women ejaculating is RARE! I have never ejaculated nor has anyone I know ejaculated. She's very normal......the stuff you see on tv is a show.....they find women who ejaculate just for that particular show.....but percentage-wise very very few women ejaculate.

She's very normal.
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